My mom

I’m not going to be with my mom tomorrow, although we’ll have a chance to celebrate a belated Mother’s Day together in a couple of weeks. It would be nice to be with her on the day. But often we make do with phone calls to mark special events, the price of living many states apart.

While I won’t be with her in person, she knows my heart. In many ways, we are very different people, yet we share a strong bond that has stood the test of time and distance.

My mom is a passionate person, and cares deeply about family, faith, and country. She loves to cook big meals and have a crowd around her table. One of her favorite things to do is to plan treats for the little ones in the group. She has a play area set up for the small fry, and over the years the grandchildren and nieces and nephews have all had their turn among the toys. They’ve had their special cakes and tea parties, and they know she keeps kid food on hand at all times. “Goodie bags” and little “unbirthday” presents have marked many a visit to her house.

She’s a great one for family photos, and is always on a mission to gather the group to get an updated shot for her wall. You can see the changes over the years…the babies who are now teens, or worse, the young adults who are now grey adults.

She and my dad were married more than 50 years, and though he left us in 2008, he is still in her thoughts, a close companion throughout the days. She remains married, even in her widowed state.

She’s a strong woman, healthy, energetic, and motivated. She always has more to do than she can do in a day. She is creative, and when she was younger, channeled creativity into sewing, cooking, yard work, painting, and mothering. She made my wedding dress, sewed special things for my children, made drapes for the house. She’s an artist who painted in oils, and a gardener who loves flowers. She is a legendary cook, and has created memorable feasts over the years. She’s famous for her yeast rolls, her fried rice, and her Italian Cream cake, a few of her many specialties.

She’s enthusiastic about her work, continuing the commitment to Christian missions that she shared with my dad. She’s a writer and publisher, a traveler and a speaker. She is tireless in her efforts to share her heart, and her faith in God.

She is a prolific author and an amazing correspondent. Computer savvy, she emails and Facebooks friends and co-workers across the country and around the world. No slouch, my mom. She often works late into the night keeping up with her commitments.

She has been a support throughout my life, listening, listening, listening. She has heard my sorrows and my joys, and has made soothing noises at the right moments, rejoiced in the good things, and resisted opportunities to throw out the occasional “I told you so,” even when it has been warranted. She is ever hopeful for me and mine.

My mom is generous in her caring, ferocious in her concern, and sympathetic to a fault. I rarely catch her in a down mood. She’s carried along by the tide of her hopes and plans, and by the memories: so many good memories through the years.

My mom has been fortunate in many ways. Though not a rich woman by monetary standards, she has had love and family and calling to fill her life. Though the family picture has changed through the years, and some dear ones are not in more recent photos, she finds joy in those around her. And she looks toward the future, to accomplishing her goals, finishing her mission, and watching the grandchildren, and great grandchildren, grow.

Happy Mother’s Day to my mom, Betty Burton Choate: my example, my encourager, my friend, a charming woman with a charmed life, and a full life. Long may she live it!

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8 thoughts on “My mom

    • Thanks, MJ, that was a sweet thing for you to say! My mom is wonderful! We were both blessed to have mothers who wanted to be mothers (paraphrasing your quote a little bit, I love that line of yours!) I always enjoy reading your memories of your mom too…such a colorful and strong woman! ~ Sheila

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  1. What a beautiful post, that is both beautifully written, but inspires me to be a fantastic Mom! One day, I want a daughter who has such wonderful things to say about me. I am so happy for you to have such a fabulous Mom.

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    • Thank you, Kate! I hope your wish will come true! Having had a daughter and a son, I have found joy in both. But obviously, I can identify a little more in some ways with my daughter.

      As to being a fantastic mom…I’m sure you will be! Your happy and optimistic outlook on life will be a great foundation for meeting the demands of parenting, and for passing along your wisdom to your little ones. What an exciting thing to look forward to! ~ Sheila

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  2. Absolutely beautiful!!! Your mom is truly an amazing woman. I was struck by the similiarities to my mom in how she is so supportive of you and yours.
    I’m wishing her (and YOU) a Happy Mother’s Day!

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    • Yes, and sometimes it takes a while to realize that they are individuals, not just moms! But aren’t we all! Still, I think most of us, as moms, would say that is one of the best parts of life. ~ Sheila

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