It’s been a week. Short weeks always work out to be long in the end. I don’t know why or how, I only know it’s true. And this one has been no exception.
I knew it was a long shot. Usually I’m built to be positive. But this house offer…just didn’t feel right from the beginning. On Wednesday the buyers decided to walk away. It was disappointing. And it was a relief, oddly enough. I didn’t feel good about the offer, and the whole thing felt too rushed. Well, I may have time to regret that one if I sit with a house on Water Street for a long time to come. But when it’s right, it will be right…no forcing it. That’s never a good feeling.
So, in the spirit of cheering myself up and putting myself back on track I thought about the steps forward. What do I need to do to right myself? That’s the image I always see in my mind…my body upside down, somehow needing to find the way back up, back to hope, back to future.
It would be a lot easier if I wasn’t sitting surrounded by empty shelves and dreading unpacking a house I just rushed to pack.
When has my efficiency ever backfired so spectacularly?!
But there are silver linings. I got a free inspection and a free appraisal out of the process, thanks to the would-be buyers. And though the appraisal cost me the sale in the end, at least it helps to price more in line with the current market value. I tell myself things work out in the end. Isn’t that what you tell yourself when you’re disappointed?
I am disappointed, but there’s nowhere to go with that. The best cure for disappointment is action. And since I love the word “grace,” for all it’s meanings to my life, I created a little acronym to help me get going:
Happy weekend! I’ll be unpacking a bit, staging the house for future showings, and finding grace. And if you’re feeling in need of that gift, I hope you’ll find it too.
6 thoughts on “When life knocks you flat…”
Grace is a wonderful theme! I had not seen the acronym you shared. I am more familiar with “God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense” – another good way to look at grace. I don’t like running into “closed doors,” but I am thankful for the confirmation to move onto something different and better in the long run.
Hi Debbie…sorry I’m slow in responding…going in too many different directions lately!
You haven’t seen the acronym because I made it up! 🙂 I like the one you reference too! Grace is so important…couldn’t make it through the day without it! ~ Sheila
Good attitude….hang in there….
Yes, with all my heart! ~ Sheila
Just had the same thing on buying a bew car…walked away from one salesman…to gain a much better deal all around…Although not feeling the GRACE at one point…it was there!
Aww .. I knew you’d find your way back to Grace! Love the catchy saying and words of wisdom 🙂 MJ